THE FOURTH OF JULY – Sailing

I grab hold of some rigging and lean a little farther out over the water. My Uncle tells me “I could do this all day. You’re not losing time when you’re out here. You’re gaining it.”

I’d like to learn to sail. Yacht racing is a sport that demands vigor in every sense. You are executing tasks that demand clear and imaginative thinking, fine motor skills, balance, brute force, endurance, and teamwork.

“How do I get into sailing?” I ask another friend of the family. “Show up to the dock and say ‘Yes’.” He says.

All parts of my time on the water this past weekend suggested that this was an activity that could be completely fulfilling. Having a boat is having a special kind of freedom. It promises opportunities for travel, with access to an outgoing and welcoming group of likeminded explorers. Indeed, many of the finest and most exciting cities in the world are port cities. When you wish it, the open sea provides room for contemplation and peace of mind.

My family on my father’s side has a long history of sailing. The family was once the proud owners of the Tigress, a Herreshoff design. I believe this is a shot of it, which I pulled from Flickr.

Of course, owning a boat much more than a canoe is a very expensive proposition. Besides the boat itself, you have to pay to keep it in the water somewhere during the Summer, and either bring it up to overwinter or move it somewhere warmer. Maintenance can be tremendous. I know that it is the dream of a number of people in my family to have a boat some day. I might suggest they pool their resources.

But to enter the racing scene, apparently, I don’t need to own. I don’t even need so much experience. Just show up and say “yes”.

In Newport R.I, long a first class sailing hub, I saw Speedboat, a design funded by Richard Branson to be the fastest boat in it’s class on the planet. I saw gorgeous wooden sloops and skiffs, day sailers with lines far sexier than most anything on land. (Pictures are coming next week.)

I don’t know a spinnaker from… from… an I don’t know what, and I can barely sort out my port and starboard. It would certainly help to get a few basics down on land before launching into the spray, but I’m thrilled by the possibilities. The windblown sailor look seems to work for me, not to mention, 70% of the guys I saw milling about the marina were… handsome… and some Aussies to boot! Not to get too far off track, but can you think of anything much more romantic than sailing down a bit of coastline with your lover, taking in a sunset from the deck with a bottle of champagne on a perfect summer’s evening? Romance motivates so much in our lives, why not this?

In any event, it’s been a productive weekend, and I feel more prepared to tackle “Doug’s Life – Part 2″.

A QUICK NOTE ON PRIDE

June 2010, and all over the world, we gays have been showing our pride. Today Manhattan will have its grand parade, as it should be.

As a very paranoid and terrified closeted teen, I was one of those people who looked at the parade with contempt, feeling that it showed the worst of the gay community – narcissistic, sex obsessed and promoting the most hated stereotypes. This was of course bullshit. It’s terribly important that we have Gay Pride. The world is still filled with all too many insidious superstitions, tragedies of backward education that continue to raise generations of fearful human beings who believe that violence is a solution. Having now participated in 3 pride parades, I can tell you that it is filled with wonderful organizations, looking to have fun, empower themselves through difficult times, and be a positive influence on society. It is nothing to be afraid of, and its spirit should be embraced on a larger scale.

I think that “Pride” is a model for a celebration that will one day encapsulate all people looking to show their desire to be compassionate, confident, creative and forward-thinking members of society.  A time to celebrate our gifts as human beings and the best we have to offer as a species. One day, perhaps in 100 years or so, society will look at human sexuality as a fantastically varied spectrum, and we’ll move closer to labeling ourselves as human rather than an ultimately meaningless subcategory.

In any event – show a little pride today.

PHOTO OF THE DAY

Found this Ichneumon Wasp today. We used to be amazed by these creatures, usually discovered around a log pile in my friend’s back yard. Some of the larger varieties have an Ovipositor (isn’t that a great word? So functional.) which can be 4 or 5 inches long. To the uninformed it appears to be an enormous stinger which could run clean through you. But no, it’s just for boring into old wood and laying eggs.

Ichneumon Wasp

PHOTO OF THE DAY

Spider

I’m at my parent’s house on Long Island this week, as I begin to move out of my apartment in Brooklyn for the summer. That’s one reason some of my latest POTD’s have been, well, half assed. However, looking through photos on the family computer, I discovered an archive of pictures taken during summers in my backyard. I would spend hours at a time hunting insects and other small creatures, using the macro function on my Dad’s Kodak Easyshare. A few of them came out quite well. The above is from June 11th, 2004 – 1:59PM (don’t you love meta-data?)